Travel Etiquette 101: 3 Steps for Making Every Journey a Success

More than a list of do's and don'ts, etiquette, at the core, is about consideration, courtesy and respect.  And while you may not be able to master the varying customs and norms of every culture, the universally guiding principles of good manners (also known as the golden rule) will carry you far and leave you in good (social) graces.

So wherever your travels take you next, remember to bring along these simple travel etiquette tips for a successful journey.

• Smile!  A smile can hardly ever be interpreted as anything other than warm, friendly and welcoming.  It's an indispensable asset for establishing positive connections.  

• If traveling abroad, learning a few basic words or phrases in the local language will both endear you to the locals and enhance your connection.  It's a small sign of respect that will take you far and garner the willingness of others to help you, ultimately making your experiences more rewarding.

• Relax and remain open to learn new things!  Each journey should enrich your cultural and social I.Q.    

With these tips in tow, being a great global citizen will be easier than ever.

Happy Travels!

This post originally appeared on TravelistaTV.

Table Setting Etiquette: How To Set (and Navigate) a Proper Dinner Table

As we start the New Year, I thought it would be a good idea to let you in on a little secret:  I have a "thing" for social graces--i.e. manners and etiquette.  For DMRFF regulars, this probably doesn't come as much of a surprise, but I wanted to put it out there, nonetheless, for my long-time and new readers, alike.  Now that my "secret's" out, I hope you can appreciate my passion for making your dining and entertaining experiences more pleasurable.

More than lists of do's and don'ts, at the heart, etiquette is a thoughtful consideration of others.  In fact, my most simple translation boils down to "doing unto others, as you would have them do unto you."  With that said, observing the rules of social engagement, including dining, is something to be appreciated, because, when done in earnest, it (typically) leads to a more civil and enjoyable experience for all.   

Sometimes a picture is worth a 1000 words.  And I think the above diagrams of both formal and informal place settings are great tutorials.  Log them as reference guides and refer to them as often as necessary to keep you sharp.  They're also great learning tools for teaching children the basics of table place settings.  

More than anything, though, just relax and go with the flow.  If someone grabs your bread plate by mistake, follow suit and take the one next to you.  The rotation will make its way around the table and everyone will receive a bread plate, without any embarrassment or hurt feelings coming into play.  It's the gift of good manners.  And the gift that keeps on giving. 

Happy Eating!